A relationship isn’t all about sex, it’s also about companionship. And if your partner is boring, that’s not going to work.
We’ve all been there: you are on a date and there’s nothing to talk about. They’ll stare at their phone, the menu, their wine glass — anything but you. And when they do finally speak, they kind of say nothing at all.
“If she only talks about her pets and her favorite TV show, or all they do is drink, or talk about drinking… boring!” says one man. “Resting bitch face is boring,” another man added. Basic, too.
But a lot of men have a really strong feeling about what makes women boring, and if he senses it, he can’t proceed with her. For most men, it’s simply not having a life. Sure, they want you to be into them and their interests, but have something going on in your own life. Care about your job, your hobby, your dog, your friends. That way you have something interesting to bring to the table on your next date.
Here’s what makes women boring, according to men themselves.
1. She doesn’t try new things.
“My motto is to discover, learn and experience life. I want to learn something no matter how trivial. So a woman who just wants to punch the clock and never deviate from her everyday routine would bore me. I like a woman who has an open mind and wants to challenge herself and me in discovering new things intellectually, socially, culturally, and sexually. Someone who thinks they know it all and has no interest to expand their mind would bore me. I like someone who embraces new experiences and not afraid to get out of the comfort zone.”
2. She just doesn’t fit with me.
“I find no particular trait ‘makes’ someone boring, it’s just the ‘absence’ of something you’re looking for. An entire human consciousness can’t be boring in general, only boring to you.”