I like to think I can tell a lot about guys’ opinions of women and if they are good in bed. And most of the time, I can. It’s not too hard to figure out what guys think about a woman’s skills in sex, but sometimes, even seasoned veterans of these discussions (like I am) can get thrown for a loop.
Such was the case when I was watching what appeared to be a date from hell with a friend of mine. The girl herself was decent-looking, but her personality was lacking. Greatly.
In fact, she was painfully aggressive towards other people while a very embarrassed-looking man continued to stay patient as a saint with her. By mid-date, she was completely trashed and yelling at him. Eventually, she went to the bathroom to fix up her makeup.
My friend, being the bro that he was, asked the poor fellow whether he needed an excuse to leave.
“No,” he replied sheepishly. “We’ve been, umm… dating for several years.”
“Ah, so she’s that good in bed?” my friend asked.
Silently, the guy nodded. I just sat there in awe that a woman’s bedroom skills could make such a huge impact. So, I began to wonder what else I wasn’t noticing about guys when they’re dealing with a sex goddess in the sack.
My guy friends decided to weigh in on what makes a woman who’s good in bed worth it.
1. Your ex contacts you years later.
“If he keeps hitting you up for sex years after you broke up, there’s a good chance that he thinks that you were one of the best lays of his life. After all, casual sex is pretty easy to obtain.”
2. Your bedroom skills, not your personality, are what keep him around.
“When a girl is really awful in terms of personality, dirt poor, and mediocre in terms of looks, if she’s got someone heavily committed to her, it’s because of her bedroom skills.”
3. You lick your lips.
“Like, constant lip licking, lip curling, things of that nature.”