Surveys show that over 70% of women need more than just sexual intercourse to orgasm. As many men seem to go straight for penetration, this leads to a hell of a lot of women who are left feeling unsatisfied sexually. A huge number of women fake orgasms to keep their men happy. Unfortunately, this leads to dull sex and possibly even separation.
If you don’t learn how to satisfy a woman — your woman in particular — sooner or later she’ll find a man who will!
You need to know how to give deeper orgasms than just clitoral orgasms to really win her heart and take her deep. Men who do find that they get lots of sex and lots of positive feedback.
Really exploring your woman’s orgasmic potential is one of the best ways to become much closer — and it leads to sublime sex, again and again.
The following tips all depend on some great foreplay first to get her really wet and wanting penetration. I like to spend a lot of time on breast kissing and massage, as well as long strokes up her body and inner legs. Really take your time in foreplay and enjoy every touch and kiss.
Here are 5 types of female orgasms … and how to give them to a woman!
Male orgasms are easy to understand. You simply get aroused, thrust, finish and go to sleep. Most men can only have one type of orgasm, after which they usually lose their erection for some time before they can get hard and have another.
Women, however, can have many different types of orgasms. These orgasms range from those that are barely noticeable to her man, to screaming, toe-curling, and even bed-soaking squirting orgasms. And, there are all sorts of orgasms in between those extremes!
Also, unlike men, the type of orgasm a woman has is often 100% controllable by her sexual partner — you! (With her consent, course.)
One of the first steps to giving your girl the strongest orgasms of her life is recognizing that you have control over her orgasms. My point is that you should never blame your woman for not coming. Always be honest with yourself (and with her) and ask yourself (and her) if you are really sexually satisfying her.
Let’s talk about some of the types of orgasms women are capable of having — and how to satisfy her with them all.
1. Foreplay Orgasms
These orgasms take place during foreplay (or “pre-penetration” as I like to call it). Foreplay orgasms are important because they allow your lover to “warm up” and have multiple orgasms later when you penetrate her. Every GREAT lover should have the following foreplay orgasms in his playbook:
- Clitoral orgasm: This orgasm concentrates on the clitoris. Not as intense as the deep spot and other vaginal orgasms but still a great warm up and relatively easy to give.
- “Deep Spot” orgasm: The “deep spot” orgasm is often the first time many women have a true “internal” orgasm, as it’s usually easier for a woman to have one of these than it is for her to have one during sex.
- “G-Spot” orgasm: Similar to the deep spot orgasm, but not quite as intense. Still, a great orgasm to have in your bag of tricks to get her “primed” for multiples during sex!
- Nipple orgasm: Not all women can have an orgasm through nipple stimulation alone, but since I personally know a few who can, I had to list this type to make the article complete!
Now, let’s talk about some of the orgasms women are capable of having during penetration!