6 Ways To Pick Up The Pieces After A REALLY Terrible Breakup
The next six things are things you can do to get over a heartbreak, to get ready and prepare for a new start, no matter how scary that may sound at the moment:
1. Give yourself the time to grieve the relationship.
You lost someone who was important to you. Acknowledge that and don’t pretend it never happened. If you need to wallow for a bit then do that, just watch that you don’t drown in it.
Grieving is a natural method of saying goodbye to something we lost. Your relationship was important to you, otherwise you wouldn’t end up with heartbreak but with relief, so take your time.
2. Be honest, and find out what was your part in the breakup.
It is always easy to blame the other, but by taking responsibility of your contribution to the breakup, you examine the mistakes you made and you can learn from them.
Action is reaction. When you know what went wrong, you can prevent the same mistake happening in the next relationship.