When you find someone you care about, do you take the opportunity to make a commitment with them?
If you’re not in a relationship and you want one, you can make a commitment to yourself to understand why you are not in one.
Here are 7 things that keep people from committing to a relationship. Which, if any, apply to you?
1. I am afraid I may choose the wrong person.
What if I don’t really love this person?
What if there is someone better around the corner? What if I am being used or manipulated for sex, money, citizenship, etc?
What if I find out later that my partner has some big secret they are hiding?
2. I am afraid of giving up my freedom.
What if l have to give up something important, like nights out with my girlfriends or golf with my buddies?
The relationship will become stifling and not fulfilling.