Let. Go. Of. Perfection.
When I started preparing to launch my coaching program “Make Your Inner Sex Kitten Roar”, I talked to both men and women about what they believe makes a person sexy.
And the number one answer is this: confidence.
I can’t wave a magic wand and gift you with confidence, but you want to know how to be sexier, follow these 8 tips to boost your confidence and feel as sexy as ever:
1. Let go of perfection.
I understand that you want things to be right in your life, but trying to be perfect is actually paralyzing.
Perfectionism sets you up for living in fear of never measuring up or being good enough. Confidence isn’t developed in a state of perfection.
In fact, perfectionism is the antithesis of confidence. So, quiet your inner critic and let go of the need to be perfect.
2. Take action.
Confidence comes through experience, and experience comes through action. The most confident people I know are, ironically, the ones who are willing to look stupid, insane, crazy, and idiotic in order to reach their goals.
Over and over, they attempt, fail, course correct and continue to learn and grow through life’s experiences.