Learning how to masturbate is a great way to find out what turns you on during sex and what kinds of physical touching and fantasies make you most likely to reach the big ‘O’. After all, if you don’t know what takes you to pleasurable heights, how do you expect someone else to? The name of the game is self discovery, and there’s no shame in it.
Like anything, everyone’s taste is different when it comes to self pleasure. Some women like to watch sexy flicks. Others like to play with toys—especially the vibrating kind. Some women just like to dim the lights, light a few candles and get to it. Whatever your preference (even if you aren’t sure what exactly that is), this slideshow has some amazing tips for self pleasure newbies and pros.
Take a click through and get some ideas and inspiration for your next solo session! Go ahead, don’t be shy—expand your range of fantasies, get to know your body and feel sexy! Find out what makes your toes curl so next time your with your partner, you can be open about what you like and feel sexy. It will be an even better experience! Trust us.
Let us know which tips you found helpful!
1. Getting In The Mood
The most important thing you can do if you want to be sure that you climax when masturbating is first getting in the mood. Getting in the mood is something that varies greatly from person to person.
For some, they find that all they need to do is lie down on their bed to get in the mood. While for others, they like to drag it out by having a shower, applying some body lotion all over their body, lighting some candles, playing their favorite music and putting on something really comfortable before sitting down on a nice comfy chair.
2. Ensure Privacy
If you want to truly relax and get in the mood before you start masturbating, then make sure that you won’t be disturbed by anyone.
For most people, this means masturbating in their bedroom or doing it when their roommates/partner is not in the house. You might also find turning your phone to silent is a good idea too. This means that if you like getting vocal as you masturbate, you won’t have to worry about someone hearing you.