Top 5 Reasons To Cheat
Cheating shouldn’t happen in a relationship, but it does. What are some of the motives behind infidelity?
1. Alienation of affection. If my partner cut me off physically and emotionally, I’d start thinking about looking elsewhere.
2. Unhealthy/dangerous habits. If my partner seriously got into drugs and was resisting all help, it would ultimately be a deal-breaker.
3. If he cheated on me first, I just might “have to” retaliate!
4. Meeting someone with whom I had crazy, undeniable chemistry.
5. Midlife crisis!
Honestly, I had trouble coming up with five reasons why I would cheat. It’s not something I believe I would do – though each situation is unique, so no judgment if this is something you’ve chosen.
Cheating happens – there are a myriad of reasons why, as we’ve seen above. For myself, my choice would be to end my current relationship before embarking on something new – as much out of respect for my partner as for myself. Think about it: Would you want to be cheated on? Most likely the answer is “no” – so don’t put your partner in a situation you wouldn’t want to be in yourself, even if the love has faded.
Cheating is usually a sign that something is wrong with the relationship. Hello, obvious! Instead of heaping more drama on the problem (even if it feels good at the time), why not stop and attempt to fix what’s wrong? Your next lover should be willing to wait in the wings while you work on wrapping up your previous entanglement. A clean slate – what’s sexier than that?